My dearest Katherine,
I know that it’s tough right now, it’s been tough for all of us. But as I’ve always said to you, George Harrison was right, all things must pass.
We’re not perfect. The almighty in her infinite wisdom made us in her image, but did not grant us perfection as a trait. Now we can strive for perfection, try our hardest every damn day to be perfect, but alas it’s a fools errand.
When I said my job was to break the chain of dysfunction, I truly meant it. You and your sister are my number one priority, and I work my ass off Every. Single. Day. To break that chain and push you out into this cruel world better prepared than I ever was.
So tonight, right before your head hits the pillow and you try your best to sleep, know that you don’t need to carry that weight, that’s my job. Know that you are loved unconditionally, and that there is nothing that I won’t do for you or your sister.
You’re so much smarter than I am, you will learn and know more than I will ever know. You will also face your own fears and challenges, but (and this I know to be true) you will always come out on top. Your fierceness, your drive, your tenacity, and your capacity to see the good and love are exponentially greater than your fathers.
I know this, because I see it. Every. Single.Day!
Love you KitKat! Always!
Dad
